Age Related Fears and Longings

Age Related Fears and Longings

  Social distancing stopped my volunteering. Perhaps in reaction to feeling directionless and underappreciated, I’m visiting my family in central Washington, hoping to return rejuvenated. Easily Tired Tomorrow I’m driving to central Washington, for two weeks with...
I Benefit from Racism

I Benefit from Racism

  As a white, male, US citizen now exploring my own racism, I’m struck by a number of stories in my past that illustrate how I have profited and benefited from racism. If my stories spark memories of your own, please consider sharing them. Learning U.S. Racism —...
I’m Lonely Too

I’m Lonely Too

  Loneliness is a national epidemic and it’s killing us. Social isolation is more lethal than smoking 15 cigarettes a day. It increases inflammation, heart disease, dementia, and death rates. It’s linked to our opioid epidemic and soaring suicide rates. Despite...
The Neediness of Aging

The Neediness of Aging

  A friend and I were discussing how we don’t want to be a burden on our children, loading them with the neediness that comes with age. Our children are fully occupied by building their own lives. It’s no secret that as we get older, we have increasing needs....