Intimacy — Or Not?

Intimacy — Or Not?

  I dipped my toe into the intimacy topic in February 2020 with a posting titled, “I’m Lonely Too.” Then came postings in March and April 2021, both on intimacy. I said how hard it was for me to talk about my feelings and my fear of being open and vulnerable. I...
Why I Live in The United States

Why I Live in The United States

  Immigrants like me land and stay for many reasons, often unconscious. The obvious ones are a familiar culture and language, and inertia. Over time, my family, friends, and career anchored me. But there’s something else I love — and hate — about the United...
A Living Patchwork

A Living Patchwork

  As a child I darned my socks using a mushroom darning spool, a darning needle (rounded point), and matching wool thread. Now, over 70 years later, I find myself well darned over by the medical profession. If it wasn’t for their constant patching, I’d be long...
Visiting the Red Zone

Visiting the Red Zone

  Reading about vaccine resisters makes me anxious. My just-finished summer trip, visiting family in Mansfield, Ohio, dropped me into the thick of it. Being up close was scary. After my spectacularly green 50-minute drive north from Columbus Airport, my grandson...
Vaccination Freedom?

Vaccination Freedom?

  Had your Covid Vaccine yet? Were you as relieved as I was? Freedom at last! First, a visit to a friend in LA, then to Wenatchee, Washington, where my daughter and grandchildren live. With this travel came the reminder of changes in our nation. What Is Freedom? ...
Loose Ends

Loose Ends

This blog wraps up some loose ends but also holds me accountable for straying from this blog’s originally stated mission, to be about life 70 and older. 1. Comments My last blog invited your comments on how our combative American culture has affected you personally....