My New Plan B

My New Plan B

  Swimming Swimming in the mornings is a favorite ‘hands busy, mind free’ time. As my body swims my brain drifts, open to what floats in. Today, dying showed up. I was playing a mental game, stepping into the shoes of someone way outside my understanding (Covid...
Which Tribe Is Yours?

Which Tribe Is Yours?

  Seeking Understanding in 2021 With so much at stake in our world today, I ask myself, why do we focus on our differences, rather than the vast terrain of commonalities? We know it’s tribalism, so why are we stuck in it? Tribal Animals We are each members of our...
Understanding “Those Others”

Understanding “Those Others”

  No one gets out of bed in the morning to act crazy. Yet, in our wildly polarized times, we may feel that “those others” have lost it. They haven’t, and they think we have. How can we make sense of this? How can we see beyond tribalism? In April this year, I...
A Different World for Each Generation

A Different World for Each Generation

  After a truly wonderful recent visit to Wenatchee, Washington, my daughter drove me to the airport. Her children were along for the ride, and she spoke with her son about scheduling a tune-up for his bicycle. I mentioned that when I was a kid, taking a bike to...
Gaslighting

Gaslighting

  A recent article in the New York Times used the word gaslighting. It sounded familiar but I had to look it up. The term comes from a 1944 movie with Ingrid Bergman, Joseph Cotton, and that always-a-villain, Charles Boyer. In Gaslight, Boyer drives Bergman...