by Barry Phegan | Oct 15, 2021 | Aging, Social comment
My mother once recounted a story from my childhood. Just three or four years old, I had come across a dead bird, probably a sparrow, in our front yard. After examining it with earnest concern, I announced, “It’s lost all its interest.” She found that amusingly...
by Barry Phegan | Oct 3, 2021 | Aging, Social comment
Swimming Swimming in the mornings is a favorite ‘hands busy, mind free’ time. As my body swims my brain drifts, open to what floats in. Today, dying showed up. I was playing a mental game, stepping into the shoes of someone way outside my understanding (Covid...
by Barry Phegan | Sep 15, 2021 | Aging, Social comment
Some professional writers advise beginners to write about things they know. As a beginning writer, that advice got me thinking. Here’s what I know about climate change, human nature, and my job as a senior. Clocks Go Forward Fact. There is no winding back the...
by Barry Phegan | Sep 1, 2021 | Aging, Living Life
I have a long-term friend whose husband died a few years ago. When she pictures him she feels sadness and loss. When I picture him I feel his warmth, energy, and enthusiasm. I wonder what picture he would like us to have? The Invisible Walk-Ins They say it’s...
by Barry Phegan | Jun 28, 2021 | Aging, Social comment
After a truly wonderful recent visit to Wenatchee, Washington, my daughter drove me to the airport. Her children were along for the ride, and she spoke with her son about scheduling a tune-up for his bicycle. I mentioned that when I was a kid, taking a bike to...
by Barry Phegan | Jun 13, 2021 | Aging, Living Life
When I started this blogsite in May, 2019, I falsely imagined I was relatively baggage-free. These writings, and my failed efforts at finding a new life partner, pulled back the curtain. It’s not just baggage. I’m loaded with steamer trunks. One...
